feat: TIPS Metering RPC

[danyalprout]

📝 Summary

RPC's to send metering information to op-rbuilder. To make sure this never blocks the build loop, I did a handful of comparisons between different datastructures/locks:

Approach	Avg Time	Max Read Time ns	Max Read Time ms
Dual Map & Periodic Swap**	239ns	70292ns	0.07 ms
Dashmap ✅	669ns	93709ns	0.094 ms
HashMap (rwlock)	647ns	1433us	1.43ms
HashMap (mutex)	673ns	1441625ns	1.44ms

** This was a custom implementation and while the fastest, I felt like the additional code wasn't worth it over using a DashMap it also has the downside of not being a live view on the data (whereas dashmap is)

💡 Motivation and Context

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✅ I have completed the following steps:

• Run make lint
• Run make test
• Added tests (if applicable)